One of the biggest challenges for expats is managing how their children adapt to their new lives abroad. Our article 10 Tips for Parenting as an Expat covers some of the important topics you'll need to consider in order to make this happen. It won't always be easy, but millions of people have done it, and so can you!
Embrace the Local Culture
Encourage your children to embrace the local culture by engaging in local traditions, customs, and holidays when it's feasible. This may help them feel more connected to their new environment and foster a sense of belonging. Attend community events and make friends with local families when it's possible. That will be more of a challenge in some places than in others.
Embracing the local culture, however, doesn't mean you have to abandon your own culture. You and your family can find ways to adopt what is in line with your values, and do your best to navigate key differences that are not. Will there be tension between the two at times? Almost certainly, and that is part of the challenge of any international relocation. Be prepared for those challenges and communicate with your spouse or partner on how you will handle those circumstances.
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Maintain Consistent Routines
While living abroad introduces new experiences and a lot of change, maintaining some consistency at home can provide comfort. Stick to routines that work for your family, whether it's regular meal times, bedtime rituals, or weekend activities. These routines will create a sense of security for your children in an unfamiliar environment.
Any routines from home that you feel will translate well to your new circumstances can be quite helpful and should be considered. At the same time, trying to completely recreate your old life has the potential to backfire and lead to kids longing to go home. It may take time to find the proper balance, but adding some level of consistency and familiarity can be extremely helpful when moving to a new country and culture.
Be Patient with the Transition
Moving to a new country can be overwhelming for both you and your children. It's important as a parent to be patient with your children as they adjust to their new country and culture. While you have a broader set of life experiences, coping skills, and resilience to navigate these changes, children often lack the same frame of reference. Try to see this new life through their eyes, understanding that what may seem exciting or manageable to you can feel overwhelming or confusing to them. Give them time and age-appropriate support as they build their own sense of security in this unfamiliar environment.
