10 Cultural Faux Pas to Avoid While Living in Colombia

Moving to a new country can be an exciting adventure, but it also comes with the challenge of navigating a different culture. Colombia is a country rich in traditions, and while Colombians are known for their warmth and hospitality, there are certain cultural norms that expats should be aware of to avoid making faux pas. Here are 10 tips to help you respect local customs and integrate smoothly into Colombian society.

1. Understand the Importance of Greetings

Greetings in Colombia are often more than just a simple 'hello.' It's common to exchange pleasantries and ask about each other's well-being. A firm handshake accompanied by direct eye contact is standard for men, while a single kiss on the cheek is common between women and when a man greets a woman. Always take the time to greet people properly, as rushing this process can come off as rude.

2. Dress Appropriately for Different Occasions

Colombians take pride in their appearance and often dress up more than people do in many other countries. For business or formal events, wear smart attire. In coastal areas, the dress code may be more relaxed, but it's still important to avoid overly casual clothing like shorts and flip-flops in professional settings. Observing and emulating local fashion can help you blend in.

3. Be Punctual, But Flexible

While punctuality is appreciated, especially in business settings, social events often operate on 'Colombian time,' where being a little late is generally accepted. However, as an expat, it's best to arrive on time and be understanding if others do not. This flexibility demonstrates respect for the local culture.

4. Learn the Local Language

Spanish is the official language of Colombia, and making an effort to learn and speak it will go a long way in showing respect for the culture. Even basic conversational skills can help you connect with locals and navigate daily life more effectively.

5. Understand the Role of Family

Family is central to Colombian culture, and it's common for extended families to live close to each other and gather frequently. If you're invited to a family event, understand that this is a sign of trust and acceptance. Show interest in family members and their lives, as this is a key part of building relationships.

6. Be Mindful of Regional Differences

Colombia is a diverse country with regional variations in customs, cuisine, and dialects. What might be acceptable in Bogotá could be different in Medellín or on the Caribbean coast. Take time to learn about the specific customs of the region you're living in.

7. Avoid Sensitive Topics

It's wise to steer clear of discussing controversial topics such as drugs, politics, and the armed conflict unless you're well-informed and the conversation naturally goes there. Many Colombians are eager to move past stereotypes and may find these subjects uncomfortable or offensive.

8. Respect Religious Traditions

Colombia is predominantly Catholic, and religious holidays and traditions are observed with reverence. Even if you're not religious, showing respect during these times is important. For example, during Semana Santa (Holy Week), many Colombians participate in religious processions and ceremonies.

9. Be Conscious of Personal Space

Personal space in Colombia may be closer than what you're used to. It's common for people to stand close during conversations and to touch each other's arms or shoulders. While you should respect personal boundaries, don't be alarmed by this level of closeness.

10. Embrace the Local Cuisine

Food is an integral part of Colombian culture, and showing appreciation for local dishes is a form of respect. Try everything from arepas to bandeja paisa, and don't be afraid to ask for recipes or cooking tips. Sharing a meal is a universal way to connect with others.

We hope these tips help you navigate Colombian culture with ease and confidence. If you have your own experiences or tips to share, join the conversation on Expat Exchange's Colombia forum. Your insights can help fellow expats make the most of their time in this vibrant country.

Expats Confess Their Cultural Faux Pas in Colombia

"Yes said to a man's wife "su esposa..esta caliente?" which is " Is your wife hot? (is she a "hot piece"?) They say "Su esposa tiene calor"? which is "Does your wife feel the heat?"," commented an expat living in Buga.

"It is important to try to avoid making any negative comments about Colombia's past conflicts or suggest that there is still violence present. Additionally, it is considerd disrespectful to dispute with or criticize a person's religious beliefs. It is important to use formal language when addressing someone and to take off your hat when entering a church or a private home. It is also recommended to dress modestly and to give a gift such as flowers or chocolates when attending a social gathering or an event. It is inappropriate to whistle at women and it is important to avoid using offensive language or gestures," said an expat in Colombia.