I loved reading this. I am merried to a wondeful man for 18 years. He is 25 years older than me. When it comes to happinnes I think I did better than most of the ladies (whom I know) who married guys either the same age or close to. However ,I was 27 when I got married. It may make a diffence because I kind of knew what I was doing. And I have met so many guys and none of them were like the man I got married to. I would not mind my daughters meryring an old guy but maybe NOT 25 older. No more than 10 years older. I think that ladies ages faster than men, I may be wrong. But I like the fact that I always look young to my man. There is this myth in Brazil that merried men tend to look for a lover because what they have home is not so fresh anymore apparently according to the myth men need that or want that. Go figure.