Hi! Im very new on this forum and i hope i can get some answers to my questions. I am from europe and i met an ivorian guy who works here. We have gone through a lot of sufferings in our earlier relationships and finally we found each orher. True love. He treats me as a real woman, he gives me everything. We share the same viwe of the world, we all want the same from life... n here comes the but!!!!he was 30 n behind his back his family started looking for a future wife to be. They found a girl for him and they are forcing to marry the girl. He had an earlier relationship where he was engaged they were preparing for marriage but the girl quit. Im totally lost. I dont want to lose this guy. He said it is his familys honor if he doesnt accept the marriage. But i told him he should tell his family he found real love. ?? i m listening to any options, advices... just please i want to undestand it better n not to suffer so much. Thank u for yur replies.