I am a recently retired USAF member, with SSDI and VA benefits. I want to move my wife and son (6 yrs old) to the Phillipines. I have a combined retirement/ disability income of close to 4K US. We want to live somewhere safe, beachside (preferably in an established ex-pat community). I would greatly appreciate any suggestions on where to live. We are not interested in a "tourisimy" type place, or the bar/ nighltlife scene.