Okay, so in the search engine I put in the physical features I am attracted to on Cupid and Pinalove. I like 5'1 or lower, and less the 105 lbs, with black hair, Asian, petite or slender, non smoker, Attractive or very attractive, and with or without kids... I now have it down to about 5,000 women. Clearly I need more filters, or I have found the biggest candy store in the world. :) I admire you guys that have found your one and only!!! Which filters would you add? Thanks!