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RhysG
Joined 2011
Posts: 3

IS it just me (question 4 the guy) but any can answer

13 years ago

hey this is 4 the guy but fell free to answer. growing up in bali my whole i realized that there more gay in bali then ever before i don't have a problem with gay i have gay friend, but there is a line when they start hitting on me or talking about me when im in ear shot that where i draw the line now if you go past that dnt expect me to be a nice person. now in the past couple of week every where i see gay that got past my line (even when im with my girlfriend). last week my and my girlfriend were at warung italy getting take away and while i was wording my food there these to gay behind us and one said the the other oh he got a cute ass my girlfriend didnt hear it cuz she was ordering then she said my boyfriend would like to oder to. then the two guy started to laugh and one siad it a shame he taken. by this point i already wat to turn around a brake there nose, but i keep kool. keep in my all this was said in indo and my girlfriend and i were speaking indo too.
now i went out to dinner last night wtih my family and as i was getting ready my girlfriend ask why i was dressed like a bum i told her every time i dress up and go out im sure i would her a comment or get hit on by a gay. it gotten to the point where im just over it and dont fell like going out and dressing nice.
I'm i the only one this island going through this problems or all the other straight male going through it to ?
And those any one have any advice fro me other then barking there nose?

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