Greetings from Down Under (Australia)! :)
My question... as a foreigner, how can you spend a lot of time together in Indonesia when staying at her house is socially unacceptable?
This lady is divorced although her former husband has passed away. She lives in Jakarta in her family home (late parent's home) with her 2 teenage kids.
She informed me that for me to stay at her house is not socially acceptable.
To stay extended periods of time in a hotel is not an option and pretty useless to get to know your lady in her natural environment,
Any comments?